How to Calm Down: 5 Long-Lasting Tips to Help You Relax & Stay Present This Summer

How to Calm Down: 5 Long-Lasting Tips to Help You Relax & Stay Present This Summer

The school year is over, summer Fridays are in session, and stress is…well, inevitable.

Between packed schedules, camps, carpooling and constant sleepovers, it’s easy to put self-care on the backburner. Let’s face it: working in some “you time” can feel stressful in and of itself. Not to mention, saying “no” to something can feel selfish or even mean (spoiler alert: it’s not).

But self-care doesn’t always come in the form of state-of-the-art spas and long weekend retreats—it’s about doing something you enjoy. Something to rejuvenate your soul so you can get back to your everyday tasks with a renewed sense of purpose and joy. This could mean a quick nap, an exercise video, a glass of wine or your favorite movie.

I also like to think of self-care as a long-term approach to protect my time (and sanity)—aka, not just moments to yourself, but boundaries and philosophies to establish in your everyday life.

Sounds pretty sweet, doesn’t it? Keep scrolling for five long-lasting tips to a more relaxed, present summer…

1. Avoid over scheduling.

If you’re a parent like me, you know how busy our little ones’ summer schedules can be. That’s why I set boundaries: Each of my four kids are allowed to choose one activity, like baseball or swimming, and two camps to attend. Nothing else! Not only does this keep me sane (who wants to spend their entire summer carpooling?)—it creates some extra free time for myself. Remember, “me time” isn’t selfish, whether you’re a parent or not.

Read More: The Busy Girl’s Guide to Self-Care

2. Embrace lazy days with nothing to do.

Speaking of overscheduling, a packed calendar will only lead to burnout and rigidity. Don’t get me wrong, planning is great! But you should try to leave room for spontaneity, too—even if it’s an extra hour to nap every once in a while. Productivity doesn’t always need to be your priority. Embrace the times you need rest (or even some well-deserved fun!). Say yes to people and experiences you actually want to do instead of packing your schedule with activities you’re not overly excited about.

Read More: My Self-Care Guide for the Mom of Four (Spoiler Alert: It’s NOT Bubble Baths & Facials)

3. Take time to truly recharge.

I said it once, and I’ll say it again: “me time” isn’t selfish. Not to mention, when you take care of yourself, you’ll be able to better show up for the ones you love. Schedule a date night with your spouse, friends or siblings. It doesn’t need to be fancy! Maybe it’s time to book that adult weekend away, or even a massage. Be sure to choose something that feeds your soul and will keep you feeling refreshed. Remember, not everyone’s self-care looks the same.

Read More: The Best Luxury Bath Products to Encourage Self-Love

4. Welcome the balance.

Stay consistent with things that keep your health in balance. Summer may bring more late nights or inconsistent diet choices—hey, life happens! There’s no need to beat yourself up over pizza night, relaxing days by the pool, or ice cream runs. Those are all amazing things! But that doesn’t mean you should abandon your health goals entirely. Continue making time for exercise, meditation, and yes, even your skincare routine.

Read More: 3 Essential Tips to Prepare Your Skin for a Healthy Summer Glow

5. Avoid distractions & stay present.

Take advantage of the sun shining, the temps rising and your kids being home for a few months—these days will be gone before you know it! Try to reduce tech time as a family. Go for a walk in the park, plan a picnic, head to the pool, read your favorite books and maybe even consider setting time limits on certain apps (your future self will thank you).

Read More: My Favorite Spring Things: Vacation Essentials, Books to Read, Cleaning Tips & Skincare Musts

2146 comments

  • asdnbbrqwg on

    https://github.com/pelisplus-ver-chabuca-2024
    https://github.com/chabuca-en-espanol-latino-cuevana
    https://github.com/cuevana-ver-chabuca-2024-online
    https://github.com/ver-chabuca-espanol-y-latino
    https://github.com/chabuca-2024-pelicula-completa
    https://github.com/pelisplus-ver-chabuca-pelicula-2024

  • tekteuktkutke on

    https://linkfly.to/60417pwISYt
    https://linkfly.to/60417nuYM7V
    https://linkfly.to/60417BW1Zav
    https://linkfly.to/60417ZoZ35k
    https://linkfly.to/60417R24psP
    https://linkfly.to/60417f0WRes
    https://linkfly.to/60417UlEYEt
    https://linkfly.to/60417HNatXT
    https://linkfly.to/604170j39UV
    https://linkfly.to/60417YPZlE5
    https://linkfly.to/60417Dq4hPb
    https://linkfly.to/60417gnJ176
    https://linkfly.to/60417yki9x8
    https://linkfly.to/60417b9g6CJ
    https://linkfly.to/60417jS0qOd
    https://linkfly.to/60417eqe9Jf
    https://linkfly.to/60417iA4YFG
    https://linkfly.to/60417yEDgbj
    https://linkfly.to/60417Kbtyiz
    https://linkfly.to/60417tN8oX9
    https://linkfly.to/60417tUWCA4
    https://linkfly.to/60417oUU7hG
    https://linkfly.to/60417j1xo15
    https://linkfly.to/60417uZ4Uhy
    https://linkfly.to/60417JerE3O
    https://linkfly.to/60417H9v3dM
    https://linkfly.to/60417eIyjam
    https://linkfly.to/60417AZu7Cm
    https://linkfly.to/60417XEcei9
    https://linkfly.to/60417t3siX6
    https://linkfly.to/60417bltJuw

    https://paste.rs/X3GQY.txt
    https://jsfiddle.net/cf3z6akL/
    https://snippet.host/gyrdre
    https://paste.centos.org/view/b08be0a8
    https://paste.ofcode.org/39HenF2mbVWQe525bzmUdR4
    https://paste.chapril.org/?0d7a9b76a992f5fa#Ga8TmRhYGsGaGtjnBTG9z6jHn8pz5Gr4bap8RzrHgu76
    https://pasteio.com/xkSbwnGISSSx
    https://pastebin.com/a9GWsmnY
    https://pastebin.freeswitch.org/view/5910defa
    https://paiza.io/projects/CGcAgk6tM8he0mZfEgrwKw
    https://tempel.in/view/2h7xyAvr
    https://bitbin.it/9XeVUbzC/
    https://onlinegdb.com/ODtMx0qu9
    https://paste.ee/p/ZklIz
    https://paste.thezomg.com/196402/17133904/
    https://sharetext.me/j7bnso5waj
    https://ideone.com/iXGpkk
    https://paste.laravel.io/6970f9c0-fa68-4ee7-b3b0-a883085390d5
    https://notes.io/wf3fK
    http://nopaste.ceske-hry.cz/406430
    http://ben-kiki.org/ypaste/data/100154/index.html
    https://jsbin.com/ravotivuxo
    https://www.posteezy.com/tuktukutek-tuektuktkte
    https://rentry.co/f43me3f8
    https://anotepad.com/notes/jp59ftt6
    http://paste.jp/52c53820/
    https://glot.io/snippets/gvcisg7a62
    http://pastebin.falz.net/2519157
    https://pastelink.net/0m8fov3v
    https://p.ip.fi/3f2R
    http://pastie.org/p/7yd9OojjVdXj6U6TJmqVdQ
    https://tech.io/snippet/alQ5HEo
    https://onecompiler.com/html/42akxc8hj
    https://paste.feed-the-beast.com/view/5aba1146
    https://surveyking.com/w/pu1nc4w
    https://sebsauvage.net/paste/?104adda6f832d650#hexr7/dRDgkFUddwXIzHSIX9Da09cnBA07hsPdDiYEo=
    https://www.tadalive.com/forum/thread/29456/rwyjrywjryjryw/
    https://paste.ubuntu.com/p/7JrbtG977B/

  • wrjyrywjryjryjw on

    https://linkfly.to/60417Vfd9oO
    https://linkfly.to/60417LlbLjZ
    https://linkfly.to/60417cMIKtF
    https://linkfly.to/60417l3uve8
    https://linkfly.to/60417dZHtFz
    https://linkfly.to/60417MGwH5u
    https://linkfly.to/60417flWxQi
    https://linkfly.to/60417T1UKrF
    https://linkfly.to/604175VtuLh
    https://linkfly.to/60417Fmkbrc
    https://linkfly.to/60417aOAoAf
    https://linkfly.to/60417gdOfmB
    https://linkfly.to/604172Vo49P
    https://linkfly.to/60417BGwiDd
    https://linkfly.to/60417gPe9Kk
    https://linkfly.to/60417lFZhWa
    https://linkfly.to/60417uqduZ7
    https://linkfly.to/60417AG5hxW
    https://linkfly.to/60417hPRYJe
    https://linkfly.to/60417ch9KJc
    https://linkfly.to/60417zVFh1D
    https://linkfly.to/604177KC2sv
    https://linkfly.to/60417HDGMee
    https://linkfly.to/60417Efb9oE
    https://linkfly.to/604177YXqQs
    https://linkfly.to/60417lvi9dE
    https://linkfly.to/60417aJlsxQ
    https://linkfly.to/60417fY4Oba
    https://linkfly.to/60417HDhpFM
    https://linkfly.to/60417aO6hpY
    https://linkfly.to/60417fjVqT0
    https://linkfly.to/60417tbQNCm
    https://linkfly.to/60417iRokQT
    https://linkfly.to/60417p5EJhF
    https://linkfly.to/604178qsk3Q
    https://linkfly.to/60417NZ0m4m
    https://linkfly.to/60417aBMKWC
    https://linkfly.to/60417Z9RQ52
    https://linkfly.to/60417tkmAyn
    https://linkfly.to/60417vwvVKB
    https://linkfly.to/604173F3OBz

    https://paste.rs/48k1J.txt
    https://jsfiddle.net/72wzv5y9/
    https://snippet.host/njnnuu
    https://paste.centos.org/view/1d6ee158
    https://paste.ofcode.org/9LJ7F2LK2CDEv8g9KfgUa2
    https://paste.chapril.org/?760d086d5a62071d#ANb5Vw8C7rFexCjPirw8fmi5eHfHXKhmdYG4DjPkqhw2
    https://pasteio.com/xORlHnVTt7PJ
    https://pastebin.com/MY19sN50
    https://pastebin.freeswitch.org/view/b56b2af2
    https://paiza.io/projects/NicMLdfKRZ2_ZIZpTiA56g
    https://tempel.in/view/3YYOcnoI
    https://bitbin.it/wuN5tnMt/
    https://onlinegdb.com/SffJ9ZmWR
    https://paste.ee/p/6Xwuv
    https://matters.town/@unclefarming/578066-teukteketktktetuk-bafybeiefyspcilru56jgqcykmlvmqormjhxtywmyydrioz74sdwpclvbzi
    https://paste.thezomg.com/196400/13390132/
    https://sharetext.me/08tsaugfea
    https://ideone.com/egTEaV
    https://paste.laravel.io/5577e93d-0e3f-4269-8c2d-c60db4ff478a
    https://notes.io/wf3fh
    http://nopaste.ceske-hry.cz/406429
    http://ben-kiki.org/ypaste/data/100152/index.html
    https://www.posteezy.com/teuktuetuktuktuktkutk
    https://jsbin.com/yipusezice
    https://rentry.co/92naepiy
    https://anotepad.com/notes/gixgfi8g
    http://paste.jp/47778362/
    https://glot.io/snippets/gvcipfvb9m
    http://pastebin.falz.net/2519156
    https://pastelink.net/0fs40omm
    https://p.ip.fi/ejMj
    http://pastie.org/p/2tmq80Zrs1XfPyaVfHGpaw
    https://tech.io/snippet/wJCI6xC
    https://onecompiler.com/html/42akx5qr6
    https://paste.feed-the-beast.com/view/f8c080d1
    https://surveyking.com/w/f1mcu53
    https://sebsauvage.net/paste/?98bc86a981b93391#mShXjrSjucGz/8Xrpqzql8h62jR1GXNQA8vbjsTFQ=
    https://www.tadalive.com/forum/thread/29455/tuektuktuktuktuektku/
    https://paste.ubuntu.com/p/5CHjpMtGJ3/

  • gshhrowtt on

    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262504/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262539/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262599/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262710/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262722/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262116/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262126/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262187/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262353/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262316/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262247/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262473/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262462/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262494/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262959/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540262848/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264070/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264068/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264505/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264515/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264733/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264161/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264181/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264365/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264393/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264456/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264420/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264900/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264916/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540264928/
    https://github.com/film-vor-la-malediction-lorigine-2024
    https://github.com/voir-la-malediction-l-origine-fr
    https://github.com/films-voir-civil-war-streaming-vf
    https://github.com/civil-war-en-francais

  • asepotyxbr on

    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689005/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689034/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689044/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689557/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689536/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689769/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689784/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689119/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689126/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689304/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689627/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689209/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689269/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689298/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540689419/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686161/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686183/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686315/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686322/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686605/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686263/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686284/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686411/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686483/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540686971/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688037/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688085/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688517/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688523/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688772/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688109/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688118/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688126/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688193/
    https://www.imdb.com/list/ls540688357/

Leave a comment